“There is no system ever devised by mankind that is guaranteed to rip husband and wife or father, mother and child apart so bitterly then our present Family Court System” – Judge Brian Lindsay Retired Supreme Court Judge

I have been pondering what has been happening in the courts lately.  I am struck by the overall apathy of people until it directly affects their lives.  Apathy is the very thing that destroys a nation.  When we become apathetic we let down our guard and allow the wolves to enter the sheep’s fold.  These wolves are cleverly disguised as sheep but no matter what they look like on the outside they are wolves who seek to devour every thing in site. I know it sounds a little dramatic and a little conspiracy theory but the reality is that we have let the wolves in.

Politically our nation and many other nations around the world are poised on the edge of destruction.  Every major empire in history was brought down by apathy of the people.  When apathy happens, complacency follows and then nations are easily overtaken.  I think back to the not so distant past of the Nazi regime.  When Hitler came to power he spouted ideals and a Utopian society that everyone desperately wanted. They were tired of the status quo and wanted change.  He was a genius of a man and knew that the way to control the nation was to control the families, primarily the children.  Once he had control of the children he could brainwash them into believing whatever he told them. This insane man was able to rally huge parts of the civilized world together to fight for his ideals.   How was he able to do this?  I am personally convinced that he was a very persuasive personality, but more than that he was brilliantly strategic in where he put his focus.  He focused on the youth.

The very thing that happened in Nazi Germany is happening today.  Families are being torn apart by people in positions of power – judges, case workers, attorneys.  The family court system  and our system of  justice have become the new regime.  If you don’t agree with them, if you stand up for your rights, or voice your displeasure in the system you are crushed. As much as I hate to say it the alienators  think that they are in control but really they are just puppets in the hands of power hungry people who want to play God in the lives of the people.  Parental Alienation is one of the tools they use to destroy families and gain control of our children.  It is happening everyday in every civilized country around the globe and the majority of people are sitting back and apathetically letting it happen.

“America’s family courts are causing millions of children undue suffering as a result of rulings which result in one parent, usually the father, being cut out of their children’s lives. These actions against our children are nothing less than child abuse, the results of which we are just now realizing all across this country. Children from fatherless homes account for 63% of youth suicides, 70% of juveniles in state operated institutions, 85% of all children that exhibit behavioral disorders and 71% of all high school dropouts. These statistics are just a sample of the adverse effects these rulings are having on our society. The impact is both socially and economically devastating. What kind of future will our children face without these issues being successfully addressed?” – World4Justice

Let’s put a stop to the apathy, the insanity and the destruction of our nation through the use of the family.

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For many of you Father’s Day was an incredibly sad day.  On a day when you are supposed to be celebrated you were ignored or at worse maligned. It is not a day in which you celebrate fatherhood but one which has become a reminder of injustices in the family court system and the evil that seems to be taking over.

I have witnessed the pain that Rick goes through on Father’s Day for the last 11 years.  He wakes up with an extremely heavy heart and a sadness that just won’t go away.  We go to church where fathers are acknowledged and honored, then usually do something special to celebrate what an awesome father he is.  But without his boys in his life the celebrations are often empty and have very little meaning.  At times he wishes the day would just disappear off the calendar.  The sad reality is that Rick is not the only one who feels this way.

Here’s what a few of my Facebook  friends posted on Father’s Day.

“It had been a harsh Father’s Day for me & many daddys deprived of our children by Family Courts. We “target parents” are often hit so badly that we often feel like giving up…”

“hard to focus on much today….”

“I am a father. Not a deadbeat, not a coward, not a man that runs away from being a father, or a deserter of my own flesh and blood. Not a sperm donor or a court appointed ATM, but a Father in the purest form of the word.”

If you have not been able to be apart of your child’s life this Father’s Day because of Parental Alienation we are sorry and want to wish you the best. We know and understand your pain and we are standing with you on this journey.  God Bless You — Barb

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There is a video circulating on Facebook and Youtube that shows a teen boy from Singapore assaulting one of his female classmates.  It is such a disturbing video. What I was struck by is the fact that this is happening at an increasing rate in every country around the globe.  I am convinced that the family courts are contributing to the creation of this type of teenager/adult. In his book  Broken Children, Grown-up Pain Dr. Paul Hegstrom says that one of the number one reasons for this type of behavior is rejection as a child. It doesn’t matter if it is real or perceived rejection either damages children. His findings are based upon years of research and personal experience in his life.  What I’ve come to understand is that the children of  Parental Alienation feel the rejection of a parent not because it’s real but because they have been brainwashed into believing it is real. As a result these broken children grow up to be broken adults. These broken adults become alienators themselves, abusers (both physical and mental), controllers and the narcissistwe are all familiar with in the PA world. The problem is that parental alienation is a self perpetuating cycle. If it is not stopped it will continue for generations to come.

Rick and I are helping a several young people who have felt the rejection of a parent some through PA, some through abandonment. Doesn’t matter where the rejection comes from these are very broken young people. This generation is supposed to be our future but they are so messed up by all that has happen and has been promoted by the family courts that I’m not sure the next generation will survive yet alone be able to be the leaders of our world.

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P.A.S about Parental Alienation Syndrome by Tish Cafe

April 27, 2010

Ran across this song dedicated to the children of Parental Alienation by Dave Bound and Mark Jefferis.  Thanks for doing your part to get the word out about this horrible form of child abuse.

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Parental Alienation Awareness Day

April 23, 2010

April 25th is the 5th Annual Parental Alienation Awareness Day. Parental alienation hurts everyone involved – children, parents, and grandparents. We believe it is the ultimate “hate Let’s get the word out this weekend.  Go to the following link for a list of events happening around the globe this weekend: http://www.paawarenessday.com/events.asp. But more than anything do [...]

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Parental Alienation – David and Sean Goldman

February 1, 2010

I’ve been thinking a lot about Parental Alienation in light of the David and Sean Goldman story.  Here is a dad that had his child kidnapped and taken to another country by a woman he once loved and trusted.  From what I have read about David  Goldman, he would have done anything for his wife [...]

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